A Second Chance

I'm a big believer in giving people second chances. After all, we are human, and humans tend to make mistakes. I believe that people can change if they want to, and if someone is there by their side to believe in them, the change will come gradually but surely. That said, i also believe that the person giving said second chance has a right to protect themselves or at least know the very basics of the person they're investing their emotions in. So here is the basic things you need to know about michael.

I've already given you his real name, Michael Gerard Boussemart, however i feel honoured bound to give you his fake names as well. Michael Laurent Carlton and Michael Druont. Both names he has used before and may use again (though i sincerely hope not) so it's better that you are aware.

Another thing i think you should know is his real age which he may or may not have told you. He was born in the year 1972. Don't let him trick you into thinking anything else.

And another thing you should know before continuing dating michael is that there are several red flags. Several. I recommend that you verify for yourself first whether everything he shares is true before accepting it as a fact. I cannot share everything i know about him here because as much as he is a horrid guy, he too has a right of some sort of privacy. I have done my part, i have warned you to thread carefully where michael is concerned. However, if you do have questions you may email me at datingmichaelboussemart@gmail.com. I cannot promise to tell you everything, but i can try.

Honey...here's the truth...

So first things' first, let us confirm that the guy you are looking for and the guy i'm talking about are one and the same. And voila!

So there he is, the object of my little blog. I've not used a more personal picture because i rather stay anonymous, in case he turns vindictive and messes my life more than he has already. 

Now the second thing, i'm sorry. I don't need to imagine to know what you're going through right now. The moment i found out that he gave me a false name, i couldn't breathe. When he denied foul motives and gave his version of the story, i was cast in the endless sea of confusion. When i discovered lie, after lie, after lie...after lie, a part of me died each time. It was an unending cycle that eventually made me doubt my sanity, my precious friends and family. No one deserves to go through that, not me, not you, not anybody. 

So honey, if you're looking for the truth, here it is: Michael Gerard Boussemart is a pathological liar. It's not just a label that a scorned ex girlfriend bestowed upon him because he broke her heart. No. I have literally put my sanity on the line in order to prove this theory wrong but it isn't. 

I confess the only psychology lesson i had was back in college which, unfortunately, didn't cover the topic of said disorder. But it truly is the only reason i can come up with that even remotely makes sense. 

Scorned woman? Yes. Vindictive? I think not.

Breaking up is hard. Both sides ends up on their respective lists of past lovers and thusly labelled according to either their strongest defective trait, or, variations of "he just wasn't right for me", "the love wasn't there anymore" or my personal favourite, "the one who got away". The messier the breakup is, the harsher the label.

For my ex, whom i've dedicated this whole blog to, i've labelled him as the pathological liar. 

Yes, as you may have guess, i am a scorned woman. I have cursed him long, loud and lengthy enough for all ears to bleed. I have destroyed enough pillows after a number of intense punching matches (yes, i didn't punched a wall, i punched pillows, get over it). I have made a voodoo doll in his like and poked needles at it all night long (just kidding, but seriously, i was seriously thinking about it. Seriously.). Every fibre of my being wants to kick, slap, scratch the crap out of my ex but i've never had the guts to. So is this my way of getting revenge? Creating a blog that would expose him as the asshole that he is? Sadly no. 

On the contrary it seems quite a punishment to me, having to create this blog. Whether you believe me or not, i do not care. I've decided to do this regardless of the inevitable backlash i would undoubtedly get. I am writing this blog solely to help his future victims. So if you, said victim, have specifically typed his name in a search engine with the intent on finding out who you are actually dating, i hope you find out some answers on this blog. Sadly, i can only tell you what i know, and what i know isn't much. But it was enough for me to leave him, so i can only hope that you will make a more informed choice on whether or not to honour the promise of "The Ring" you may or may not be wearing.