Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Scorned woman? Yes. Vindictive? I think not.

Breaking up is hard. Both sides ends up on their respective lists of past lovers and thusly labelled according to either their strongest defective trait, or, variations of "he just wasn't right for me", "the love wasn't there anymore" or my personal favourite, "the one who got away". The messier the breakup is, the harsher the label.

For my ex, whom i've dedicated this whole blog to, i've labelled him as the pathological liar. 

Yes, as you may have guess, i am a scorned woman. I have cursed him long, loud and lengthy enough for all ears to bleed. I have destroyed enough pillows after a number of intense punching matches (yes, i didn't punched a wall, i punched pillows, get over it). I have made a voodoo doll in his like and poked needles at it all night long (just kidding, but seriously, i was seriously thinking about it. Seriously.). Every fibre of my being wants to kick, slap, scratch the crap out of my ex but i've never had the guts to. So is this my way of getting revenge? Creating a blog that would expose him as the asshole that he is? Sadly no. 

On the contrary it seems quite a punishment to me, having to create this blog. Whether you believe me or not, i do not care. I've decided to do this regardless of the inevitable backlash i would undoubtedly get. I am writing this blog solely to help his future victims. So if you, said victim, have specifically typed his name in a search engine with the intent on finding out who you are actually dating, i hope you find out some answers on this blog. Sadly, i can only tell you what i know, and what i know isn't much. But it was enough for me to leave him, so i can only hope that you will make a more informed choice on whether or not to honour the promise of "The Ring" you may or may not be wearing. 

24 comments:

  1. Can you tell me more ?

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  2. Hi this is very interesting, i did research about him too before i decide if i should or shouldnt marry him. im from philippines.

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    1. I'm glad u did ur research first before deciding to do so. I was not so smart lmao, but am just grateful I got out when I did

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  3. Did he also give u ring?

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    1. Yes, he did. it is one of his moves, to propose.... I'm sad he took that life changing moment from me and turned it to something horrid.

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  4. Can you tell me what he do for living? are he a Chef?

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    1. hmmm, better if you message me privately. datingmichaelboussemart@gmail.com

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    2. Yes, my husband is a chef. The only job he has ever done.

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  5. Not to excuse him in any way, shape or form, but he is mentally ill. He is a "sociopath" and that is INCURABLE unless he really wants to get well ... which he does NOT. He will not even admit it to himself. If he says the words, he is simply playing along until he can figure out a way to manipulate his prey. He seeks to get money from every woman.

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    1. He really has mental illness I saw him eating a lot of medicine

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  6. Can u tell me more? Where does he work now? my experience is the same as yours. When we first met , he gave me the key At that time He lived in Tai Kok Tsui.He deceived many women and took their money. I hope he will be punished

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  7. i met him in a crowded place, he was by himself. we talked, he was ok, and we got along fine, we met again and decided to try to date and get to know each other. i noticed he doesnt eat much veggies, he eats meat too much, take meds, build more muscles, he has foul smell maybe bcoz of his diet and meds... during our short time together he was cool and talks a lot but i sensed some lies, so i told him off after 2 weeks of dating, coz he promised to give me something. he only gave me engagement ring and thats it,its a solitaire w small diamonds around the ring,total of 49 small diamonds plus 1 big in the middle, wish i could post a pic here. then he keeps on insisting that we go to HK so i could see his lifestyle,he says to give me pink diamonds, show his sports car, show me around HK...nice promises, but my gut feeling says no. he was so shocked when i told him off, he said its the very first time he experienced someone like me, i asked to return the ring and he was hurt, just said "its my gift for you, do whatever u please w it or sell it". i just cut his bullshit right off the bat. i felt it, i knew he cannot be trusted, how can u rush marriage and talk about it within few days and plan a family. then i searched google, and bam! saw yelp n Kathryns comments on yelp,kath is his ex. this all happened in year 2015 by the way.
    oh well michael it's not my style. not me boy, not me.

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  8. and the ring is a fake one

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  9. This horrible, lazy old man is now work with an airline catering company in Hong Kong.(Not CX) He is good at lying, poor relationships with colleagues, really bad performance.
    Hope the company kick him off asap.

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    2. Hi , is he cheating on you ?
      I met him in 2019 , as I known, he wasn’t work for that company now , he said he work for Qatar now , he acted very busy every day , because he still keep calling me every day texting me everyday !!!!!

      I just want my money back , he cheated a lot of money from me , he played game , he know what is Asian woman want , that’s why he said something like wedding plan , propose stuffs !!!!
      Email me if you guys want to know more , we can chat with Cantonese or English !
      I’m just a normal and real woman ,

      Fightforthetrue2019@gmail.com
      Hope to hear you guys soon

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    3. He was really working in an airline catering company--LSG Lufthansa Service Hong Kong Ltd some years ago as an Executive Chef. He had poor relationship with the Chinese chefs under him but he could flatter the Germans well. I met him in 2016 when I entered this company after college graduation. He preyed on young Chinese women with fair appearance, expecially those seemed to be virgins. The first time we met in the company he started to approach me. Just one week later he asked me to be his girlfriend. He mentioned his marriage and family plan within a year. Another two weeks later he asked me to visit his place in Tai Kwok Tsui. During our private meet, he talked a lot about his previous romance history. He claimed that his ex-girlfriend brought another man for sex when he came home one day, which made him feel hurt. He did not deceive me for the money since he knew my income. With his power in the LSG, he deceived me for sex. Only at this time I realised this man was unreliable and dangerous. Ever since then, I avoided encountering him in the company. It was difficult to report to the police becuase there were no critical proofs. Of course this man never felt guilty. Just around a week later he asked me if I would move out and live with him in Tung Chung. I rejected him. The so-called "romantic" relationship between us ended and after some time, I left LSG. These days I found him appearing in some culinary competitions and published his chef books in France. You may visit here: https://www.lnc.nc/article/pays/michael-boussemart-un-chef-en-ebullition-permanente

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  10. Omg girl move on its 2024 soon my be this man have diffrent life we are all exex now com on we are all in the past why dont we all move on my be he has family now evrybody lest stop talking about passs is ther no any present ?

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  11. Hi its me again the lady from phils who dated Micahel for 2 weeks. The ring i got, i had it checked and its a real diamond ring. Its good that all women who got involved has moved on. But i think removing this blog is like saying what michael has done is okay. Well ITS NOT OKAY. I was able to dodge a bullet when i searched about him on google. I am so thankful to find this. Because he was starting to talk about wedding and wanted to meet my family, no man in his right mind to propose to a lady after 1 week of meeting , i think he just saw me as a stable woman w good background or he is simply a psycho, i dunno. And so i hope that if he lie to another lady, this blog will be a help for her as well. Its a life saving blog.

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    1. Can u tell me whts you name pls and massge me pls because she keep deniying all of this pls i beg u 09669559697 pls tell me evrything i want to slap evthing in his face

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